You have reached a point where you are stuck in between a rock and a hard spot. You know that you are unhappy but you worry more about being alone. This is such a common scenario when it comes to relationships. Many times we justify expecting less from another person because we are insecure ourselves.
Here is a list of top ten reasons to stay and top ten reasons to go. You know this relationship has potential when:
If you are settling for less than any of these ten reasons then you are not being true to yourself. Being in love is about feeling you are both getting the best end of the deal. As my mother would say you both need to feel as if you won the lottery! But unfortunately there are relationships where you are staying with someone who is not seeing the same future you are. This other person tends to stay because they are waiting for something better or someone more compatible to come along, so they don’t treat you the way you should be treated if this relationship were to go the distance.
Ten reasons to go are:
Relationships are about being honest and having trust. If you have no trust, you have no relationship. You need to know when there are red flags so that you can avoid getting hurt and being stuck on a WAITING train where you are the one moping and they are the one doing as they please. In love there are no excuses, no doubts, and no lies. More often than not, people sit in hopes of someone changing for the better and hold on, only to only end up being miserable the entire time. If someone is not moving mountains to be with you, then they are not meant to be.
The saying is so true, if you love someone let them go and if they come back it’s meant to be. If not, say goodbye. The fears of being alone should never overcome the fear of being taken for granted. If you ever doubt where you are in your relationship, the best advice is to open your heart and write down the pros and cons of staying together. Trust me, the answers will start to appear before you. Also the most important advice to remember is that if you don’t love yourself FIRST, then you cannot love another. A man or woman is not the key to happiness, a man or woman is a bonus to your happiness if with the right one.
Hold your head high, because saying goodbye to someone that makes you MISERABLE gives you opportunity to meet the one that will make you MARVELOUS!!
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